RELATIONSHIPS

Recently heard about lots of stories..friends broke up..

You know..

relationships ..i mean Boy- girl relationships.

are really complicated

I don't understand..how can a person like a person soo much 

until you r willing to do everything for her...

then suddenly u said you have no feeling anymore..

so BROKE UP...

Even LOve marriage

U fell in love..two people decided to get marry and build a family

Then end up divorcing.

after few years..

you said: YOU can't get along with each other...we does'nt suit for each other..

THAT'd does'nt make sense at all 

marriages that are commenced through Western dating have the same divorce rate as America — over 50%! 

SURPRISINGLY

I read a book titiled" I KISSED DATING GOODBYE"

its written by PASTOR Joshua Harris

It's a book about how to handle relationships which is right in the eye of God...

One of the passage said:when I stopped worrying about whom I was going to marry and began trusting God's timing, I uncovered the incredible potential of serving God as a single.

It's a pretty inspired line..

You have to put God in your relationships..

That's should be a christian way in relationship..

when dating is controlled by God’s love, it will be radically different from the relationships around us.

It will want to protect that person's purity as well as from evil and harm because it pleases God

 

1 John 4: 11 - Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

GOD DESIGN MARRIAGE FOR US ..

Remember the wedding vows read: To love and cherish till Death do us part NOT till Divorce do us part! 

HOW DO YOU KNOW HE/ SHE IS THE RIGHT PERSON..??

You need to ask first whether you are the right person.

Does this person share the same faith and love for God?

Check to see if your parents approve of the person and seek the counsel of godly people for insights you may not have.

Do you feel peace and joy  from knowing that person

Marks of true love:

It waits for the right time and the right circumstances.

It has its roots in friendship.

It brings out the best in  the other person.

It has commitment and is respectful of the other

wondering why sudenly this post came into my mind...lol.....

21 21 21

21.. 21 ,...21...

dont think wrongly 

this is not the 3 measurements of my body...
BUT

CONGRATULATIONS to myself..

i am entering the 21st year of my life...

Can't believe..

Can't accept..

I used to be 17, 18 .19...

21..used to be very far for me..

anyway..have to accept the fact..

I have grown up..
There are some facts which i need to accept..

Fact 1: when people ask about your age..u ll feel shy to tell.
when i was 19..i can straight away tell my age...feel so proud somemore..

Fact 2: people will ask u whether u have boyfriend at this age..
then if u say : Nooo..
They will ask: why??must have...there must be some guys interested in you..
=_+

Fact 3: you cant act like a kiddd anymore....people will thought that u r so immature
so i cn only act like a kid in front of my parents..
Mushyy mushhyyy with them

Fact 4: You have lots to think about your future..
sometimes i can go into daydreaming when I was doing some work.
a lot of factors to consider

BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS>>
people still think that i am below 20...hahaha...
thank God for giving me a young face..


But i think the most important is u should have a young heart..:p

in 2013...
hope i can make a bit difference..
hope is always there..
hope i can achieve at least one of my new year resolutions....

I want to become a good doctor who will always be there for my patients..
I want to be a good friends of everyone..
I want to be the humble servant of God..
Lord use me as you will...
=)

Saw this on net today.
“Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. "Pooh?" he whispered.
"Yes, Piglet?"
"Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's hand. "I just wanted to be sure of you.” 

I AM HIV+...will you hug me??

I am right here in CMC..

sitting here alone...

reading through my friend's BLOG

found this is very meaningful..

recently they have this program in their UNI..

I AM HIV+..WILL YOU HUG ME??

this is to create awareness...on the WORLD AIDS DAY...

GOOD JOB SIEN!!!
you have been working so hard for this...

i love the song-THE THEME SONG composed among the medical students..

Lyrics:
Verse 1
Can you imagine
Life goes on but it drags you back
Don't have the strength to get out of my bed
Tomorrow seems so far

What if the sun feels like will never rise again
What you see are the worried face(s) of them
There is no hope to cling on

Pre- chorus
That's why we are here
Each with little action
So that we can turn the things around
Let's carry them home~

Chorus
Hold the key in our heart, we'll stay strong
Stand the cold night we'll reach the morning
Hand in hand, going step by step, bear in mind
Now when life begin

Live the dream in your mind, we'll fly high
Walk through the rain we'll see the sunlight
(That) we waiting for
We will decide that it's forever
Just fight on with (the) gut we got

Verse 2
Echoes were heard In the chamber of silence
(As it) left no one else
Talk only to the air
Aching and lying solely

Kicked in the face
Not by (the) pain or sickness itself
But by the distrusting eyes
That pushes faith behind
Now care is the thing (that you long for)

Pre- chorus
That's why we are here
Each with little action
So that we can turn the things around
Let's carry them home~

We will hold you, hug you, share with you and be your friend , we love it
We will hold you, hug you, share with you and be your friend , we love it

Live the dream in your mind, we'll fly high
Walk through the rain we'll see the sunlight
(That) we waiting for
We will decide that it's forever
Just fight on with (the) gut we got

Chorus
Hold the key in our heart, we'll stay strong
Stand the cold night we'll reach the morning
Hand in hand ,Going step by step, bear in mind
Now when life begin

Live the dream in your mind, we'll fly high
Walk through the rain we'll see the sunlight
(That) we waiting for
We will decide that it's forever
Just fight on with (the) gut we got

P/s ..sorry sien..dont mean to copy ur song...haha.dont mind ya...

Merryyyyy...CHRISTMAS!!!!!

HEY PEEPS!!!
I know its a bit late to post about Xmas..
I miss the 2011 Christmas where the family can gathered finally...
25.12.2012 I spent in India
This is the First time ever...I am out of the country...
No Friends...no family..No count downs
BUT
there is call from family and wishes from friends...=)ITS ENOUGH..
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP sometimes suffer...
but it teach u to appreciate...

Spending xmas in Hyderabad is never in the plan..
at first i thought of buying flight tickets and fly back to my home sweet home...
but thank God I made the right decision of staying back...
We went to prison to sing for them...
we were supposed to act The Story of the Born of Jesus Christ..
So I am the "Mary"...
My husband Joseph is aactually a girl..lol
but due to her creativeness ..she made herself looks like a guy
Which u ll see in the pictures which i posted...
I have to act pregnant...they laugh at my acting..
And of coz I have my dearest ARTIFICIAL baby in my hands..

We ended at around 3 pm..back to church to have lunch..
Then guess what...we went shopping..the gurls are so excited..
The boys actually the same..just they didnt express it..
I bought two pants..
And a top...quite worth to shop in Hyderabad..actually
but felt guilty spending money..xp

NEXT
Domino's pizza for DINNER.....

at home...we start singing songs...
uncle and aunty start singing the 60's song...
COUNTRY BOY....etc
love these songs..
then the youngsters start singing the " recent " songs too..\
Edmund was playing guitar..WESTLIFE;s popular songs....WHAT ARE WORDs..love these songs..
when the singing session was goin on..finally I felt : IT IS CHRISTMAS....it should be like this...

MY HUSBAND<3 td="td">

Dont't u think he look so cute??LOL

In Domino

SINGING

That night I was chatting with HIPPO on facebook when I got back to the room...

we chatted so much that night...

and I got a poem that night..I was kind of surprise he wrote that

because it was kinda " obvious" I am the reflection in the poem...

end up it leads to something which WE've never talked about for a long time.. 

I thank God for such a Good friend i have..

Thanks for everything in CMC 

at the same time i was chatting with Aunty Neelima and Sunita akka in the room...
listen to their advices..they were sharing their experience in their life..
through that we can learnt a lot..
sometimes should really listen to elder..
RESPECT THEM
end up I slept at 3.30 am..

MERRY XMASSSSSSS=)