RELATIONSHIPS

Recently heard about lots of stories..friends broke up..

You know..

relationships ..i mean Boy- girl relationships.

are really complicated

I don't understand..how can a person like a person soo much 

until you r willing to do everything for her...

then suddenly u said you have no feeling anymore..

so BROKE UP...

Even LOve marriage

U fell in love..two people decided to get marry and build a family

Then end up divorcing.

after few years..

you said: YOU can't get along with each other...we does'nt suit for each other..

THAT'd does'nt make sense at all 

marriages that are commenced through Western dating have the same divorce rate as America — over 50%! 

SURPRISINGLY

I read a book titiled" I KISSED DATING GOODBYE"

its written by PASTOR Joshua Harris

It's a book about how to handle relationships which is right in the eye of God...

One of the passage said:when I stopped worrying about whom I was going to marry and began trusting God's timing, I uncovered the incredible potential of serving God as a single.

It's a pretty inspired line..

You have to put God in your relationships..

That's should be a christian way in relationship..

when dating is controlled by God’s love, it will be radically different from the relationships around us.

It will want to protect that person's purity as well as from evil and harm because it pleases God

 

1 John 4: 11 - Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

GOD DESIGN MARRIAGE FOR US ..

Remember the wedding vows read: To love and cherish till Death do us part NOT till Divorce do us part! 

HOW DO YOU KNOW HE/ SHE IS THE RIGHT PERSON..??

You need to ask first whether you are the right person.

Does this person share the same faith and love for God?

Check to see if your parents approve of the person and seek the counsel of godly people for insights you may not have.

Do you feel peace and joy  from knowing that person

Marks of true love:

It waits for the right time and the right circumstances.

It has its roots in friendship.

It brings out the best in  the other person.

It has commitment and is respectful of the other

wondering why sudenly this post came into my mind...lol.....